How to tell a girl you like her: 7 Easy tips
Going from liking a girl to dating her isn’t always easy, especially if you’re the type of person who finds it difficult to take things to the next level. You don’t know what to say or do to make it clear that you’re attracted to her and you worry it won’t go well. You need to overcome your doubts or nervousness because that’s how you can get to the point where you express how you feel and get her to be your girlfriend. There’s different approaches you can take so before you do anything you can take some time figuring out which one you’re most comfortable with.
1) Be honest about how you feel
Take the opportunity to use your upfront personality to move the relationship along from platonic to romantic. Before you talk to her you need to take a couple of deep breaths to calm down and run through the conversation in your mind so you feel more prepared. Ask her if she has a couple of minutes to talk and either go somewhere private if you’re together or talk on the phone. Tell her that you’re attracted to her and wondered if she feels the same way because you’re interested in dating her. This lets you know right away if there’s potential for a relationship and your honesty means there’s no chance of you accidentally sending mixed signals.
2) Share something personal
Sharing something personal can lead to dating because it shows her that you feel close enough to do that with her and you hold her in high regard. She knows this is important to you and that your feelings for her must be strong. After you do this you need to wait awhile, a few days at least, so she has time to think about how this moment made her feel and if she feels close to you. Once this happens you can say that you shared that personal thing with her because she’s special to you and makes you feel good. Tell her you wish you could be more than just friends and give her a chance to reply. If she seems into it then you can ask her out and say that you’ve wanted to do that for awhile.
3) Be playful about your feelings
If you struggle with expressing yourself then it may be easier to be playful about how you really feel. You can do this by making jokes about dating her, saying that you make a great couple or that she’s the only one you want to spend the weekend with. Women love a man with a sense of humour because she knows she’ll never get bored with him so this attitude will get her attention. Being playful about it shows her that you’re thinking of this and she wonders how serious you really are. This makes her start thinking about what dating you would be like and it gives her a chance to joke back by saying you should do something about it or that she may go out with you if you’re lucky. When she does this you can take a more serious tone and ask her out.
4) Drop hints to mutual friends
You can get mutual friends to tell her you like her if you’re not comfortable doing it yourself. This takes longer but it takes the pressure off of you and it gives her a chance to decide how she wants to proceed without putting her on the spot. You can drop hints to your mutual friends that you like her or that you wouldn’t mind getting to know her better. Do this occasionally then wait for them to tell her what you’ve been saying. You’ll find out when this happens because they’ll tell you or you notice she’s looking at you differently. Your friend may also offer to set the two of you up on a blind date which you can accept.
5) Do something thoughtful
Thoughtfulness is a healthy personality trait that women look for in a man before they consider dating him because they want to be with someone who’s kind. You can show thoughtfulness by doing something that she isn’t expecting. If you spend a lot of time together due to social circumstances, like hanging out with mutual friends or working together, and you notice she’s about to get bored you can make her day a bit nicer by getting her a coffee. You can also surprise her with giving her a ride to work, offering to help her with something or ask her if she’s okay. When she asks why you did that you can say that you like her and wanted to do something nice for her. You can make it clear you’re interested in dating her by adding that it’s part of why you’re boyfriend material or that if she likes that then she should see how good you’ll treat her when you’re her boyfriend.
6) Be flirty and compliment her
An easy way to make it clear that dating is on your mind is by being flirty and complimenting her. You don’t know if she feels the same way so play it safe by being playful until you know she’s okay with what you’re doing. Tell her she’s the best looking woman in the room, that she’s the only one you’re interested in talking to or you’re glad to see her because you’ve been thinking about her all day. When she flirts back you can smile and say “It’s that obvious I like you, huh?” then ask her out. This seamlessly leads to a dating situation and all you have to do is pick a date and time to go out.
7) Go out as friends
Before dating it’s a good idea to go out as friends first so you have a chance to get to know each other better. You can go to the movies, take a walk in the park or grab dinner at a nearby restaurant. It lets you get an idea of what it would like to be a couple and if you get bored easily with her then you can change the pace by suggesting you go elsewhere. If this outing goes well then at the end of it you can tell her what a good time you had and that you think it would be nice if you tried going on a date. Be upbeat when you say this so she knows you’re serious and tell her to think about it so she doesn’t feel like you’re pressuring her for a date.
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