8 Major signs she’s just not into you
If you’ve met someone on an online dating site it can be tough to figure out if she’s really into you or if she’s just trying to be nice. Before you get serious about dating someone you need to decided if it will be worth your time or not.
1) She’s slow to respond to messages
If she takes her time responding to one or two messages then it doesn’t mean anything. She may just be busy but if it’s something she does all the time then it might be because she’s not interested in talking to you.
2) She wants to take things slow
If she says this then she’s making it clear that she still hasn’t figured out if you’re someone that she wants to be in a serious relationship with. She’s distancing herself from you and trying not to get emotionally attached while telling you to do the same thing. It’s usually a nice way to say she thinks of you as a friend and doesn’t want to take things further.
3) She makes excuses not to go out
If she keeps canceling plans with you or keeps saying she’s not sure when she can meet then it’s probably because she doesn’t want to spend time with you. It’s hard to come right out and say that so by putting off plans she’s hoping you get tired of her asking her out.
4) She doesn’t make eye contact
If she doesn’t make eye contact with you and seems distracted when she’s with you then it’s a good sign that she’s not interested in what you have to say. Her focus is elsewhere and she can’t be bothered to make an effort at hiding it.
5) She doesn’t make an effort with her appearance
Women love dressing sexy and making her man interested in her so if it’s clear that she doesn’t make an effort to look good for you then there’s a reason why. If there’s no effort being made then she probably isn’t taking things seriously and doesn’t care if you find her attractive or not.
6) She always wants to go somewhere social
It’s hard to be romantic when there’s lots of other people around so if she always wants to go somewhere social like a club instead of back to your place then she’s probably not interested in you. If she wanted to get to know you better she’d pick somewhere quiet so the two of you can focus on each other.
7) She seems interested in other guys
Women know that men get jealous of other men which is why they avoid talking about their ex-boyfriends and male friends. If she talks about hanging out with other guys or jokes about someone hitting on her then it’s obvious she doesn’t care about how you feel. She’s letting you know that there are other men in her life and that she wants to spend time with them. Would you talk about other women in front of her? Probably not because you don’t want to upset her so why would she do that to you?
8) She doesn’t listen to you
Women are interested about the men they go out with. They want to know what type of person you are, how your day went, what your plans for the weekend are and so on. This makes them feel closer to you which is how the relationship gets stronger. If she doesn’t listen to you then it’s because she isn’t interested in getting to know you better.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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