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7 Things to know before dating a girl who doesn’t mind being single

Broken Heart Syndrome There are many reasons why a girl might be okay with being single so it’s best if you keep an open mind when dating a girl like this. She won’t be like your other girlfriends and you might end up with broken heart syndrome or be surprised that she isn’t the promiscuous type.

1) She isn’t promiscuous

You know she has sexual needs and thinks she deals with them by having hook ups but that might not be true. She could be the type of woman who’s careful about who she sleeps with and isn’t promiscuous at all. Don’t expect this to be a casual type of relationship just because she’s the type of person who enjoys the single life.

2) She’s independent

She’s used to being independent and will make plans without thinking about asking you first. She’s not the type of person who wants to do everything as a couple and will find it annoying if you come across as being too clingy. She’ll need some space from you now and again otherwise she might start missing the single life.

3) You need to be independent too

She wants someone who’s an equal and it’ll bother her if you’re not as independent as her. Don’t cancel nights out with friends because you feel like you have to go out with her and avoid texting her when you’re bored to see if she wants to come over. Let her be the one to make contact first so you don’t seem like she’s the only thing going on in your life.

4) She knows what she wants

She might enjoy being single because she knows what she wants and isn’t willing to settle for less. Before you get serious about dating her you need to get to know her better and find out why she doesn’t mind being single. The more you understand her the better chance of success with the relationship.

5) She has her own life

You need to remember that she has her own life and not take it personally when she does things without telling you first. She’s used to being on her own and it’s a change in pace for her to have someone else in her life that she needs to consider when making decisions which will take time for her to adjust to.

6) She’s happy

You need to accept that she’s happy being single and that you can’t change her by trying to make her commit to you. Let the relationship happen naturally instead of making it go at your pace and don’t act like she’s missed out on life because she hasn’t had the same dating experiences as you.

7) Friends are more important

Single women tend to spend a lot of time with their friends and by the time she starts dating you they’re going to be her support group. They’re the ones she’ll rely on and the ones she’ll think of first when it comes to going out on the weekend. It’ll take time for her to get to the point where you’re the priority instead of them.

Author at Monkeys Reviews Australia
Emily is based in Sydney.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
Emily Scott

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