13 Summer date ideas for couples who are open to anything
If you’re a couple who are open to anything then it’s easy to come up with summer date ideas since there’s less restrictions. You can do more adventurous things like trying the swing lifestyle or having a threesome or you can try something a little time like skinny dipping or going to an adult store, as well as these other ideas:
Roleplay in public
You can do roleplays in public by pretending to be strangers and making sure you dress and act the part. You could be strangers meeting at a bar, a boss having an affair with his co-worker or she could be a prostitute that you pick up for a night of wild sex. Talk about who you’ll be, decide on when and where it will happen then don’t discuss it again. Get dressed up then meet them and go straight into the roleplay.
2) Go to an adult store
You can start your date night by going to an adult store and have each person buy one toy they’ve always wanted to try and buy one toy as a couple. Take your time looking around and don’t be shy about touching the toys to see how they work. When you have some new toys to play with you can go home and spend the night having fun. Be open-minded and explore all the ways you can use the toys because you want this to be a night of new experiences.
3) Have a threesome
Having a threesome can be a way of pushing sexual boundaries and get the excitement of having sex with someone new without cheating. You can meet someone who’s into the swing lifestyle or is curious about having a threesome by going to a sex club or using an online dating site. Take your time and get to know them so you can feel a connection with them and have a great night.
4) Play on cam together
If you’re an exhibitionist you can join a cam site and have strangers watch you making out or having sex with each other. If you want some privacy then you can watch cam shows together to get you in the mood then have sex with each other. Cam sites are free to join and you can play with a new person whenever you want as well as find people who are into the same kinks as you.
5) Experience the swing lifestyle
You can just watch others or engage in flirting if you’re not open to sharing or you can have someone join you for a threesome or both of you can swap partners with another couple and experience one on one sex with a stranger.
6) Outdoor sex
Before your date night check out a few local areas that are secluded like a large park or beach because these can be good locations for outdoor sex. It’s best to go later in the evening when it’s less busy and if sex is too risky for you then you can do other things like giving a handjob or blowjob because you can quickly cover up what you’re doing if you’re caught.
7) Try Tantric Sex
Tantric sex is about bringing the two of you closer emotionally and making sex a more fulfilling experience. It focuses on all of your senses and appreciating being in each other’s company rather than the actual act of sex. You can learn about it online so you understand what to do then spend a few hours together as you explore a new side to sex.
8) Skinny dipping
If you have a pool or there’s a lake nearby you can go skinny dipping which will add a rush of excitement to the date because there’s a chance of getting caught and you know you’re doing something you shouldn’t be. You can make it a romantic experience if you pick a warm night with a full moon and start things off with a light picnic of fruit and wine. Afterwards you can go for a naked swim and make out with each other as your soft, slippery bodies rub against each other then move on to making love.
9) Play naughty Truth or Dare
Playing a naughty game of Truth or Dare can be a way of finding out more about each other’s sexual fantasies and kinks and it can give you ideas of how to spice up your sex life. When it’s Truth you can ask what the kinkiest thing they’ve done is or the naughtiest place they’ve had sex and when it’s Dare ask them to touch themselves or to lick their favourite part of your body.
10) Be touchy in public
You can go out for a nice romantic dinner and secretly turn each other on in public without anyone knowing. it’ll be a secret between the two of you which can add a thrill. If you’re sitting across from each other she can slide her foot in your lap and slowly rub you and if you’re sitting side by side you can slide your hand up her skirt and gently finger her. If you’re careful and use the table or other objects around to cover your actions you can slowly tease each other until you’re dying to get home.
11) Make dessert sexy
You can have a sexy date at home by cooking a romantic dinner focused on foods that are aphrodisiacs like oysters, asparagus and sweet potatoes. After dinner you can clear the table and have dessert by making her get naked and lying on the table so you can pour chocolate sauce or whipped cream over her body then lick it off. When you’re both turned on you can make love right there and you’ll think about it every time you eat dinner together.
12) Hire an escort
There are female and male escorts you can hire and they are open to acting out all sorts of desires with couples. You can have a threesome or you can watch while your wife has sex with another man or woman. Check out escort sites together to find someone you both like and read what services they offer so you can plan the perfect night.
13) Use sex toys outside
Certain sex toys can be used discreetly which means you can play in public without drawing attention to yourselves. She can wear a remote controlled vibrator in her panties and you control the vibrations or you can wear a butt plug during the date. After you’ve spent the evening teasing each other and when the anticipation has built you can go home and have sex.
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