6 Qualities of a good sex partner
When you’re online dating and trying to get a regular thing going with someone it’s easy to ruin things by not being what they want in the bedroom. Being a good sex partner is key to having a successful relationship so work on your skills to increase your chances of having your hook up be with you again and again.
1) They pay attention during sex
It’s easy to lose control during sex because you get caught up in the moment. This could end up with you not realizing that your partner isn’t enjoying it as much as you are which could end up with them not going out with you again. Listen to the sounds your partner is making and pay attention to their body language. If they seem like they losing interest or faking it to please you then change sex positions to try and get them back into it.
2) They focus on their partner
Nobody likes having sex with someone who is only focused on their own needs or is obviously thinking about someone else. Keep your focus on your partner by making eye contact and talking to them by saying things like “You’re so hot.” or “You feel so good.” Try not to think about anyone else because the last thing you want to do is call them by someone else’s name. You could also say things like “Do you like that?” to show that you care about their feelings too.
3) They do foreplay
Foreplay makes sex last longer and feel better because it gives you and your partner time to let your arousal grow. Use this time to focus on turning them on, giving them little touches and showing them that you want to make the night good for both of you. Your partner will love the attention you give to them and it will make them want to see you again.
4) They keep an open mind
It’s easy for sex to become routine and boring so a good lover will keep an open mind and will be willing to try new things to keep sex exciting. Trying new sexual positions, toys or fantasies will keep things fresh between the two of you and will make it something that both of you will want more of. Talk to your partner to find out what they want to do and also tell them what you like so that you have lots of options for things to try.
5) They know what they want
You need to know what you want before you start having sex otherwise things will be awkward as you try to figure things out. Don’t be forceful about this though and be willing to go with the flow. Act with confidence and touch her the way that you want and if she likes it then keep going, letting things unfold the way that works for both of you. Don’t kiss her or touch her then ask if it’s okay with her or expect her to take the lead. You want things to go smoothly and naturally.
6) They don’t zone out after sex
Once sex is done a lot of people zone out or start thinking about other things. Men do this a lot easier and faster than women which will make them feel unwanted. After sex try and give her a bit of attention by staying in bed with her and telling her how much you enjoyed it. Women really don’t want a lot of talking so you don’t need to try too hard, they just want to know that you like them and weren’t just using them for sex.
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