11 Subtle signs your partner truly loves you
Everyone shows their loving feelings towards their partner differently, some are outgoing and use love quotes to express themselves while others are more subtle and use gestures to make their affection known. Pay attention to how your partner treats you because even the smallest gestures can be loving and you’ll realize just how strongly they care for you.
1) They spend time with you
They’ll want to spend their free time with you because they love you and you make them feel good. They look forward to going out on dates or relaxing at home instead of hanging out with their friends all of the time and will make you a priority in their life. The time they spend with you is quality time where you talk, watch TV together or go on dates because their attention is on you and they’re not distracted by playing on the phone or computer.
2) They use love quotes to express themselves
Things they might say include “You’re the only one I’ll ever love.” and “I didn’t know what love was until I met you.” They’ll say these things when they’re feeling romantic and will snuggle close to you or make eye contact so their words make a bigger impact on you because they want you to know that they really mean it.
3) Little things matter to them
Little things will be important to them and they’ll make an effort to remember them and acknowledge them. These could be things like asking about an important work project or promotion you have, cooking your favourite meal or going on a date to a movie you’re looking forward to seeing. They’ll do this because they know these things matter to you and want to show you that since they love you then they matter to them too.
4) They trust you with secrets
Loving someone means accepting them for who they are and having complete trust in them. Your partner will tell you things they’d never tell anyone else because they know you’ll keep it a secret and won’t judge them. Over time you’ll learn about their fears, dreams, desires and you’ll feel like you know everything about them. You want to keep this bond with them so make sure you’re supportive and share your secrets with them too.
5) They show you respect
When your partner truly loves you they’ll show you respect and treat you as an equal because they want the relationship to work. When they tease you it’ll be in a fun way and they’ll avoid subjects that they know you’re sensitive about because they won’t want to upset you. They won’t make fun of you in public or belittle you because they know that it’ll drive you away and they’ll ask your opinion on important decisions because they don’t want you to feel left out.
6) They offer unconditional support
You won’t feel alone or like you’re the one who’s doing all the work because your partner will be making an effort too if they truly love you and want the relationship to be long lasting. You’ll feel like you can count on them to help you with anything and you’re not worried that they’ll see you as a burden. They’ll listen to you when you need to talk about something, do extra work around the house if you’re too busy and will support any decisions you make if they think it’s in your best interest.
7) They want to make decisions as a couple
They will want to talk to you and make decisions as a couple instead of just telling you what is going to happen. They want to hear your point of view and will take your feelings into consideration before making their final decision because they want to feel like you’re doing this together. They also want your opinion because it helps them understand you better which makes them feel closer to you. They will listen to everything you have to say and will find a solution that will make both of you happy instead of just them.
8) They always include you in their plans
If they love you then they see a future with you and will slowly build a life with you. One of the ways they do this is by including you with their plans, goals and dreams for the future. You’ll notice that they’ll talk about these things with the expectation that you’ll be there with them and will be excited to try new things with you. They want you to know that they’re serious about being with you and are trying to create special memories with you.
9) They use small gestures to show affection
They’ll use small loving gestures to show their affection for you without realizing it because it comes naturally when you reach a certain point in a relationship. You might not notice them at first because they’re subtle but it becomes obvious once you start paying attention to how they treat you. Small gestures will include things like leaning into you when you’re relaxing in bed or on the couch, holding you hand, snuggling up to you in bed or brushing their hand against your arm when you’re talking. It’s their way of reinforcing their connection to you and want you to reciprocate because this shows them that you feel the same way.
10) They know when you’re upset
If they love you then they’re going to spend time getting to know you well and this will make it easy for them to understand your body language. They’ll know when you’re upset by the way you act and will ask you what’s wrong before you’ve had a chance to say anything. They’ll have also picked up cues on how you like to deal with problems and will know when they need to give you some space or when they need to listen and be supportive.
11) They make you a part of their life
They will gradually make you a part of their life because they want to go from casually dating to being a couple because they have strong feelings for you. They want you to get to know their family and friends and will arrange events that involve all of you, they’ll want to get to know your social circle too and will find hobbies that the two of you can enjoy together. They want to create a strong bond with you emotionally as well as physically and will try different things to try and make a fulfilling life with you
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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